As part of my initial communication with each couple, I send out a questionnaire in order to gather a bit more information. See below for a slice of that text correspondence with Amy and Kevin about their Gladstone Hotel wedding:
Me: How did you two meet and how did he/she propose?
Amy: We met volunteering. We proposed to each other in Paris (both of us bought rings and decided to propose w/out the other knowing. Kevin beat me to it, but I pulled out my ring right after).
I'm just going to leave it at that!